I need help... What can I do?

Melanie, sorry to say this but he is trying to make u feel bad by telling u that the reason he is that way is because of u.. He is what i call a macho man he wants things his way very controlling n if he started disrespecting u by yelling at u and accusing u of cheating then u dont need to take him back.. Once some one u believe u love disrespect u then they deserve to be with. What if next time instead of yelling and cussing at u he ends up hitting u? Thats how an abusive relationship starts.. Ur better off changing ur number n let him be what he wants. If he wants yto loose his job his house then thats him its in NO WAY. YOUR FAULT.. you go on with ur life n dont get sad bec of what he has become..